Communication and Boundaries
How do friends and surroundings influence our choices?
English translation draft · Based on the Chinese article. This is not a word-for-word translation approved by Master Shengyuan.
Friends and surroundings influence our choices. When relating to someone, look beyond their education and enthusiasm toward you. Notice where the relationship is taking you. Do not assume that strong abilities make you immune to temptation.
During my studies, I knew a teacher I liked very much. The teacher was highly educated and popular with students. Later I saw news of involvement in a drug-manufacturing case. Reports described meeting people at a drinking occasion who approached by asking for professional advice, gradually leading to further contact. I learned these case details afterward through the news.
It saddened me that a life that had looked so good could be taken somewhere unexpected through a moment's desire. Some aspects of why it reached that point remain unclear to me. My reminder is not to underestimate relationships and surroundings. Keep seeing your own choices clearly, and do not abandon appropriate boundaries merely because someone has become familiar.