Everyday Life
Why does spending money not entitle us to inconsiderate behavior abroad or in public?
English translation draft · Based on the Chinese article. This is not a word-for-word translation approved by Master Shengyuan.
Spending money still requires respect. It cannot justify noise, insults, or entitlement. I saw news of young travelers loudly disrupting public transport abroad and insulting people who asked them to stop. They felt bringing money to spend permitted this behavior. When the video spread, companions, tour leaders, and related organizations were affected and had to apologize. Assuming payment allows arrogance may cost more than imagined. Money cannot buy respect.
Shared life needs rules and trust in institutions. I offered a hypothetical: if people could harm anyone they wanted with no institution able to restrain them, how could everyone live peacefully? Words and actions affect others; personal enjoyment is not the only consideration.
Through plain-language introductions to Confucius, Mencius, and Xunzi, I discussed loving others and moral development through education. Behavior can be adjusted through learning. Begin with ourselves, family, and nearby friends, examining values and views of life and the world. Self-discipline benefits others, and we ourselves are its greatest beneficiaries too.