Everyday Life
How can I choose what to keep when books and collections outgrow the space?
English translation draft · Based on the Chinese article. This is not a word-for-word translation approved by Master Shengyuan.
Collecting things you enjoy still requires considering how much you can use and store. Decluttering need not wait until the end to decide what to throw away. Before buying, ask why you want it, whether you truly like it, and whether it must be bought now. Choices need not wait until space is completely full.
YOYO and I both enjoy reading and have bought many books. With limited space, she organized and donated some, while I still keep comics collected when young. Notes and reflections in books can make parting difficult too. You can have clear reasons for keeping something. YOYO's oracle-poem collection, for instance, recalls earlier consultations and gives the enjoyment of collecting.
Clothes are similar. Seeing a favorite design and wanting several colors does not enlarge the wardrobe. Thinking about actual use also invites reflection on where money goes. You need not reject everything you like. Instead, understand why you buy and keep it, using purchasing and organizing to clarify genuine needs.
Organizing does not mean all old things should be replaced. Miao Yuan and I discussed keeping things that still work and remain useful, then buying when genuinely needed. Keeping up with new models does not require discarding what still serves you.
Conversely, continual buying without added space calls for an honest view of actual use. Favorites can remain, but fitting them into life requires choices. Decluttering is not a competition to discard fastest. It is understanding which things still support living.