Communication and Boundaries
Do robes and a certificate of monastic status make someone automatically trustworthy to support?
English translation draft · Based on the Chinese article. This is not a word-for-word translation approved by Master Shengyuan.
You cannot look only at robes or a certificate and safely disregard all other behaviour. Appearing dressed as a monastic differs from having a clear mind and practising seriously.
Discussing alms-seeking with Miao Nian, I reminded people to learn more and observe first. When someone gives support, how does the recipient speak and treat people? Is there appreciation and gratitude, or complaint that the amount is too small? Such attitudes help you understand the person beyond clothing or a displayed identification.
If doubts remain after observing, you do not need to force yourself to give. I hope giving comes willingly and happily. You can choose another form of generosity and assist a need you understand better, allowing the goodwill to continue finding expression.