Starting Spiritual Practice
Can a word of encouragement really affect someone's growth?
English translation draft · Based on the Chinese article. This is not a word-for-word translation approved by Master Shengyuan.
It can. Teachers encouraged me, and their influence remained. Someone helping you see that you do something well can build confidence and willingness to continue.
As a child, my Chinese teacher praised my compositions, making me especially enjoy writing. In junior college, clubs, speech, and debate competitions developed expression. Military service also offered hosting and writing opportunities. Looking back, writing and speaking were abilities practiced continually and approached with more confidence.
I did not know then they would become central to later work. Writing books, recording programs, and sharing practice still rely on them. Early recognition together with repeated practice became resources I could later use.
So I feel good teachers greatly influence people. One compliment does not guarantee life success, but encouragement made me more willing to write and speak, allowing continued skill development.
Recognition also helped me see different strengths in people. Others have qualities I lack, and I may have strengths they do not. One disadvantage need not cause self-abandonment. But not every student is fortunate enough to meet encouraging teachers, so gradually learn to know and affirm yourself too. Do not let others determine all your lifelong confidence.
That encouragement also helped a less confident period. In elementary school, I wrote, directed, and performed short plays and happily had playmates. Moving to an unfamiliar environment in junior high meant losing familiar friends and spending a period mostly watching television at home. Later, praise for poems and compositions gradually restored confidence. Looking back reminds me how much support recognizing a person's strength can provide.