Communication and Boundaries
Why do we listen more readily when the same teaching comes from a deity or famous person?
English translation draft · Based on the Chinese article. This is not a word-for-word translation approved by Master Shengyuan.
Sometimes we look at who is speaking before hearing the content. Familiar people’s words may go unnoticed, while the same words from a deity or celebrity seem especially reasonable. I have found that teachings already shared with students and believers felt different to them when a deity spoke.
On the program, we compared parents and teachers. Children may disregard a parent’s reminder but accept a teacher’s. Advice about starting a business may receive more attention from a successful person than from family who said something similar. Comparable content brings different reactions because identity differs.
Approaching and learning from deities is certainly fine. Also consider whether you have heard the principle itself. Focusing only on appearance, titles, and status may miss what is worth understanding. Recognizing this habit and gradually adjusting is part of learning.
A friend’s dyed hair had faded, and I suggested dyeing it black again. Later, seeing it done, I assumed the advice had been heard. Instead, the friend said another friend who lent money had suggested it. When I mentioned my earlier similar advice, the response was not remembering it.
I was genuinely sad then. After much time talking and helping find solutions, my words might not have entered the person’s heart. This was my feeling in that interaction, not proof everyone listens only to wealthy people. Looking back, ask whether advice before you makes sense and whether you are willing to listen and understand.