Starting Spiritual Practice
What should practitioners do after admitting a mistake?
English translation draft · Based on the Chinese article. This is not a word-for-word translation approved by Master Shengyuan.
Truly change and stop repeating the original behavior. Practitioners also have shortcomings, and becoming a teacher does not mean perfection. Knowing a mistake, honestly facing it, and correcting it are what matter.
An important part of my practice is not escaping my real self. Even before considering Heaven and Earth knowing, inwardly we know whether we have behaved well or shown attachment and arrogance. On finding a shortcoming, sincerely say “I am sorry; I was wrong,” then adjust. Knowing a problem yet stubbornly denying it traps us.
Facing our darker side is difficult. Subduing inner demons sometimes requires time and experience to see clearly. Keep returning to examine and correct poor conduct so that movement remains positive.
A practitioner recalled carrying a large fish platter during a high-school part-time job. Despite care, it overturned while being set down, covering an elderly man’s clothes with fish and sauce. Immediate apology and assistance followed, and fortunately he and his family were understanding. Looking back, the practitioner felt embarrassment and regret did not remove the need to admit fault. I agreed. Others’ tolerance does not permit laughing it off as though nothing happened.
Sincerity must also show in subsequent conduct. I discussed news of someone discarding a certificate of appreciation, then apologizing online. When the school requested a formal explanation, the response was only that it was already on Instagram. Making the school take its own screenshot could suggest continued casual treatment. Recognizing wrong means responding seriously to the impact, rather than merely finishing apologetic words.
Everyday reflection can be concrete. Are you slacking at work, speaking too loudly to family, or treating friends and colleagues poorly? If genuinely wrong, apologize for that matter and adjust. This clarifies what to change, unlike vaguely condemning yourself while the same problem repeats.