Life, Death and Ancestors
Do tree, flower, or sea burials prevent peace for the deceased?
English translation draft · Based on the Chinese article. This is not a word-for-word translation approved by Master Shengyuan.
These burials are not bad simply because no gravestone is erected. I value the deceased person's wishes. Someone accepting natural burial, loving the sea, and wanting freedom may have their wishes honored through scattering ashes at sea. Returning ashes to soil through flower or tree burial also conveys resting in the earth.
If someone wanted a definite resting place or valued traditional burial, family convenience alone should not decide. Some fear fire or reject cremation; others prefer a columbarium. Understand those wishes first. Available places and family affordability are real practical matters to discuss too.
Families' feelings also need care. A person may accept sea burial while descendants worry about worship without a gravestone or parents wandering. From an energy perspective, concern itself may affect survivors. Communicate and seek agreement before arranging, so good intentions do not leave everyone unable to settle afterward.
Remembrance has other forms. A home ancestral tablet can offer a focus, and memories can remain inwardly. With faith, ask familiar deities for blessings and guidance. Whatever burial is chosen, respect the person's views and help family understand and accept, allowing a more peaceful farewell.