Parenting and Family
What if my family supports my practice but is less active than I am?
English translation draft · Based on the Chinese article. This is not a word-for-word translation approved by Master Shengyuan.
Family opposition differs from support expressed through a different amount of time or kind of participation. Hoping relatives also benefit is understandable, but demanding they match your pace need not be the starting point.
Miao Nian shared that her mother was initially concerned and sent her younger sister to look first. Later, the family joined too. She still hoped her mother would spend as much time practising and helping as she did. I reminded her that some older people may need more time to understand chess divination and spiritual cultivation ideas.
They can also begin with practical contributions within reach. Sweeping the temple, wiping tables or folding lotus offerings all serve others. Miao Nian’s mother already helped fold lotuses. Willingness to do something creates participation. Where to go next and how much effort to make still require the person’s own awareness. Living out the principles yourself so family gradually see them is also continued guidance.